Stop Your Time Wasting – FOREVER – so you can have the focus to secure your financial success and get back the free time you work so hard for...
New York Psychologist Unveils her 100% Guaranteed Time Management Seminar Designed to Eliminate Your Mental ‘Time Vampires’ FOREVER
Stop Making Excuses and Overcome Procrastination
Procrastination is A MAJOR BLOCK to your financial security and a fulfilled life. If you don’t know the REAL reason you procrastinate, you will keep trying approaches that don’t work and keep calling yourself lazy for doing it.
Stop Worrying What Other People Think About You
Sometimes we can get so caught up in what people think of us that we literally "lose ourselves" and we certainly lose time. Right now, without realizing it, you may be wasting hours a week trying to get other people’s approval, worrying they don’t think you are ‘enough’ and fearful you will make a mistake or fail.
Stop Letting Difficult People Derail Your Focus
Is it your boss, your assistant, a client, or a family member? If you have a difficult person in your life, you might waste hours a week reacting to every thing they do and trying to get them to be different. Maybe you also have people who interrupt you often and take you away from your work (Do you relate to the study of Microsoft employees where it took them on average 15 minutes to get back on task after each time they were distracted by a co-worker?)
Stop Taking Things Personally
How many times have you thought that someone did something because they didn’t respect you, and after you wasted time obsessing about it you found out their actions didn’t have anything to do with you? You are probably doing this all the time – yet even one instance of taking something personally can ruin a few minutes or a whole afternoon.
Dear Friend,
If you procrastinate, if you worry what other people think, if difficult people derail you from your focus, if you take things personally, if you don’t follow up… this could be the most important letter you read this year, because you know that if your time wasting doesn’t stop you are going to be in for some serious financial challenges AND because the information below alerts you to secrets that will never be included in any time management resource you turn to for help.
If you have tried a number of approaches to help you ‘manage your time’, but you still lack focus, procrastinate, and get emotionally hijacked in response to unexpected events, you might be doing what most people do when they notice themselves wasting time – You’ve blamed yourself.
What I am really concerned about is that you have probably beaten yourself up and thought you are lazy. And that you’ve probably thought its about discipline and that you don’t have enough of it. I’m here to tell you that some of your biggest time wasting behaviors have little to do with discipline. (Yes, you read that correctly. ) A handful of your biggest time wasting behaviors are fundamentally not about discipline.
Would it be ok if I gave you a totally different way of looking at the issue?
There is a reason why time management approaches may not have worked well for you.
The idea is that even though time management gurus are telling you good tips, they are telling you the easy part! They tell you how to schedule and block your time. They tell you how to group things together so you can be efficient. They tell you how to organize your stuff. Great. Truly helpful. However, the one catch is those techniques are only as good as the person using them (that would be you!) It makes me a little mad that they’ve left out one of the most important parts – the part of managing your time that accounts for at least 30-40% of wasting time activities among my clients and workshop participants who are like you.
They haven’t intentionally left out that information. They aren’t deliberately trying to keep you trapped in your time wasting ways. It's just that they don’t know the REAL reasons either. They may not be aware either that there are deeper, hidden components behind why you’re not more productive.
That’s why I want to talk with you about why you do these behaviors. Specifically I want to help you discover the 4 biggest time wasters you do probably everyday without realizing it. Then I want to share with you the REAL reasons why you waste time and procrastinate and stay unfocussed, because if you don’t understand where your behaviors are coming from, tools you learn probably won’t take hold. Only once you know the REAL reasons why you do it that you will quickly and easily start taking action and no longer go back to your old habits.
But first, in case you don't know me, let me quickly introduce myself. My name is Sharon Melnick and I'm a Ph.D. psychologist by training. I’ve worked with hundreds of successful people who all knew they could be even more successful and life up to the expectation they had for themselves at this point in their life - if only they could stop wasting so much time and get out of their own way. My methods come from research I did at Harvard Medical School for 10 years, where I discovered the secrets I want to reveal to you about the true blocks to your maximum effectiveness in your work and your life.
Ok, now let’s get back to this urgent information. (I think it’s urgent because in today’s economy if you can’t rely on yourself to be productive and get stuff done everyday, worst case scenarios could even be a part of the picture and I want you to know what you can do to make SURE those don’t happen). This is not the time to be unproductive; now more than ever is the time to be at the top of your game, doing twice as much as you might have been doing before and make sure it is YOU not your competition who captures the attention of your clients)
Some of your biggest time drains have little to do with what you typically hear are the explanations for time wasting. Your time wasting has only a little to do with exerting your willpower. Your procrastination has only a very little to do with fear of failure. There are actually 4 explanations for why you waste time, but for now I want to go over with you the 2 explanations that account for a significant portion of the time you wasted this week.
Time Wasting Explanation #1: There are psychological motivations programmed from early on that lead to some of your biggest time wasting behaviors. You do them for a good reason. These very things that you are doing “right” are limiting your potential the most. But once you learn the motivations behind these behaviors, you will no longer leave it up to your willpower anymore and you will know how to move quickly towards the success you hoped for at this point in your life.
In fact, here are some of the results that my clients and course participants have achieved once they learned the REAL reasons they are motivated to waste time:
"You read a zillion books and courses promising to help you get out of your own way, very few really deliver. Sharon does! From using the techniques I learned from her, I freed up 5 hours of time each week."
P.S., Female Business Owner, NYC
“I produced so much in those three months, my boss said "I'm impressed"! And now I am ready for more, and he's ready to move me into the next position."
Marlyn Salguero
"My entire organization worked with Sharon and we've been absolutely stunned by the results. Productivity, morale, and team performance are at all-time high levels. Her understanding of the human mind and behavior is remarkable. If you're looking for a 'silver bullet' to help high-potential employees at all levels expand beyond their current success level to performance beyond belief, look no further."
Clare Dolan, V.P., Oracle Corp.
"I can’t speak highly enough about this course. The information is amazing and was life-changing for me, I learned how to go beyond all my old ways and look at life differently. You come to accept yourself and finally have the power to use who you are and what you have effectively. You know how to deal with things and get immediately back on track towards what you want. My sales performance increased noticeably and my relationships with my boss, as well as with family members, have dramatically improved."
Sal Padula, Berkeley Global Ltd.
"I went from "good" to "great" - and fast! I've never been more streamlined. I'm doing the things I've set out to do. My pipeline is more robust than it has been in 14 years. I had a lot of faith in the things you said, and when I applied them, they absolutely worked. This hit the bullseye!"
Peter Cleary, V.P., UBS Financial Services
Hundreds of other people who have heard this explanation have said: “Because I now understand why I have done these bad behaviors my whole life… I don’t need to do them anymore”
Time Wasting Explanation #2: Your level of confidence determines the mental and emotional reactions you have to unpredicted situations, particularly the way that you take things personally and get derailed by your responses to other people’s actions and the stresses of when things don’t go as expected.
I call these time wasting internal reactions “Hidden Drains”, because you barely even notice you do them. They secretly deplete you of your time and energy – they sneak in and take up “mindshare” without you even realizing it – the worst part is that then you never even have a fighting chance to control them.
From listening to hundreds of people talk about their Hidden Drains, I have learned 3 things:
First, the most successful people I knew didn’t have them.
Second, what happens is that you tell yourself you ‘need to focus’ and ‘need to get more done’ in your outside world, but what you are REALLY spending your time thinking and talking about have much more to do with your reactions inside. These reactions have to do with the way you take things personally and get stuck being upset with other people These reactions have to do with the way you take things personally and get stuck being upset with other people.
Third, (and this might be one of the most relieving things you ever hear, I know it was for me!): YOU ARE NOT ALONE. In fact, let me give you some examples I heard just this week from my clients about their Hidden Drains (I even asked them to guestimate how much time it took up each day). See if you relate to these:
- “As soon as an email comes in I feel like I need to respond to it right away or else they will think I am falling down on the job. Or else they will think I don’t think they are important. So I like to respond right away even if I have more important things to do to grow my business” (time wasted: on average 5-15 minutes)
- “I daydream about doing something I’m more passionate about. Then I start going into the “what ifs” and immediately think of the reasons why it won’t work, such as “I don’t have the right experience for that”; “I can’t get health insurance doing that”. I spin my wheels, then I just put it in the back of my mind. Until something again reminds me that I really want to do something different, such as when I go out to dinner with friends and they ask me what I’m up to and I have to sheepishly report I am still doing the same thing”. (time wasted: on average 45 minutes over the course of the day)
- “I got an email from my boss asking to meet with me about progress on the big project, obsessed over it the whole weekend thinking I hadn’t done ‘enough’ and then spent all Saturday over-preparing to make sure I would look good in the Monday meeting” (time wasted: my whole Saturday afternoon)
- “Had a difficult interaction with a client, and I kept replaying it in my mind thinking about what I did wrong; I couldn’t get to sleep over it” (time wasted: 20 minutes before sleeping)
- “Spend so much time doing nice things for my family member and I was hoping they would at least thank me for it, but they never did. I didn’t get the ‘feel good’ I was hoping for but I keep doing it in the hopes that one of these times they will show me love and appreciation I crave” (time wasted over the last ten years: countless numbers of hours)
- “I know that I really want to spend more time developing my new idea and send it out to my clients and colleagues. Whenever I look at the pile of things I need to organize in order to think about it, I just get deflated. I think that other people won’t be interested or that they will think my ideas are stupid. I imagine that it will take so much work for me to get it all organized. So I just surf the net and leave for another day” (time wasted: 30-60 minutes of procrastination)
- “I have a difficult client (or assistant, or boss, etc.) in my life. I waste so much time thinking about the situation, playing it over and over in my mind - blaming them for being so aggravating; talking to them in my mind telling them how they ‘should’ act differently; wishing that they would just finally see what I need from them and show me appreciation”. (time wasted: on average 30 -60 minutes a day)
- “I got a flaming email back from someone I sent out an email blast to. It hurt my feelings and I sat there wondering: “why did they say those things to me?” (time wasted: 10 minutes)
"If you do not have a Plan for Getting your Stuff Done for the Day,
You are at the Mercy of Other’s People’s Plans for you."
How many of these did you relate to?
The point I’m driving towards is: You can try to use day planning and tasks lists and project management software all you want - Those tools are useful, but unless you conquer your lifelong programming and confidence demons, you'll slip right back into your old ways of procrastination and time wasting a day after learning more time management techniques.
I want to share with you my ideas and methods that get to the heart of WHY you're wasting so much time in the first place - and eliminate them forever.
I wanted you to know and use this valuable information so that you can get the best out of yourself and no longer completely stress yourself out for not being focused or productive as you can be (and need to be in your business now).
I want to you to get relief from overwhelm, eliminate your lack of focus and put an end to procrastination so that you can survive these times and come out on top.
Give yourself the opportunity to get this information right away, because clients are making a lot of decisions about which services to keep, and you must start off 2009 strong in order to keep your clients hiring you.
Because we are in emergency conditions these days, ‘business as usual’ does not apply, so I put together a “Greatest Hits” version of my most powerful proprietary methods, only the exercises that relate to you ending your wasting time.
I will reveal them to you in a weekly audio program so that you have time to practice the powerful tools you learn each week. As soon as you click the button below, you will be able to start using the first lesson. Each week you will receive the next audio which will help you to build on the skills you have been practicing. You will never get overwhelmed and you are ensured to free up 5 hours of wasted time so you can be way more effective at your work and have more time to exercise and spend time with family and friends.
These revolutionary methods will FINALLY pinpoint your blocks (the ones I guarantee you are not aware of), take apart your ‘old” ways and wasting time and being unfocussed, and give you all the tools you’ll need to be more productive and to move towards your goals.
Learn To Apply My Proven Methods To Your Own Life and you will move past your biggest HIDDEN TIME DRAINS.
Here is what you will get from applying the ideas you learn in this program: I GUARANTEE:
- You will stop procrastinating and take the single action that will bring in the highest paying business to you.
- You will eliminate that feeling that you are ‘a loser’ when you get to the end of your day without completing your most important task -- and in addition you will replace it with more confidence than you have ever had and a feeling that you are so pumped up you don’t even really care what other people think!
- Who is the person who you look to the most for approval? You will stop wasting time and energy worrying about what that person thinks about you, you won’t NEED their approval after this program.
- You’ll put your time, energy and attention into the things you WANT, instead of getting distracted, feeling overwhelmed or zipping in any of the million directions other than your true path
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If you want to know what you will learn each week, here it is:
Session #1: How To Stop Taking Things Personally and Let Go Of What Others Think
We all know we need to stop taking things personally and obsessing over other people's opinions, but that's so much easier said than done. In our very first session you'll discover my exclusive process for restoring your self-confidence in any situation. You’ll learn how to not take things personally and walk away with a whole set of tools to easily slide past situations that used to ruin your whole day. Next time a situation comes up, you’ll respond with poise, so you won’t have to have regrets about how you reacted.
We're not talking about masking the symptoms by just "acting like you don't care". You'll learn to make a legitimate, internal change so that you will no longer be reactive in situations. You'll discover how to bounce back instantly from emotional lows and insulate yourself from negative people. That should free up a few hours a week right there!
"I've been busier than ever at work and focusing only on the important things. My business is already up 80% for the year. Things that would derail me for days and sometimes weeks now roll off my back in under an hour. Most importantly, I now have an indescribable faith in myself."
Craig L. Meadows, CLU, CLTC, ChFC Managing Director Northwestern Mutual Financial Network
Session #2: The REAL Reasons You Waste Time - And How To Put An End To Them
This week you will find out how the 2 biggest time wasters you do are the ways that you are trying to build your confidence – and that these ways not only waste your time but also keep you unconfident. (That’s right, you REALLY NEED to listen in to week #2). You’ll finally know the REAL reason you procrastinate and why its so hard to get yourself to do things. By the end of the discussion, you will know how to focus on your own goals rather than on the opinions of others and wasting your precious resources on meaningless activities.
"The single best explanation I have ever heard about how people get in their own way, and how you can move forward."
Billie Colombaro, NY Women in Film
Session #3: Step-By-Step Guide For Building Better Habits and Ending Procrastination
In our third session, you'll walk through a step-by-step guide for building new habits that avoid wasting time. You will learn 15 new techniques to move past procrastination, and the most important part about these new techniques is that none of them will rely purely on your willpower! These techniques will help you to turn off your worries and fears and obsessing about the current economy, in order to be able to get to work. You'll be able to get things done when they should be done (instead of many days later like might be happening for you today). You'll know how to get yourself into a hyper-focused state whenever you want to and how to take action for your biggest money making activities. You'll create a sense of momentum so you get used to crossing things off your list. You will develop a sense of deep personal accountability to yourself.
You will also learn how to create "flow" states - in which you are able to set aside times to focus and think deeply so you can develop the new ideas and products that will help you secure the financial stability of your business. Finally, you will create systems for anything in your life that you do more than a few times - this skill alone will free up hours a week for you and end that draining feeling of you having to endless administrative things you hate to do.
"You clear away so much time that you spend on negative thoughts, negative emotions and actions, so you end up having more time, the net gain from the work you do in this program is extremely positive."
David Bernstein
Session #4: Making Use of Your Best Time Management Tool
Clarity is your best time management tool! The timing of this week’s lessons are perfect because it will help you with your beginning of the year goal setting. This week you will become clear about exactly what you want. Won’t it be easier for you when you know exactly what is the most important thing for you to get done each day, followed by the second and third most important. You will know how to make tradeoffs so that you can make sure to do what is truly the most important. You will know what you can let go of, and what is truly important to you. You will have the courage to trust yourself and to know exactly what you want to go after. By week 4, you should be experiencing a handful of hours a week free, so you will need to decide how to spend all that freed up time!
"Now I don’t worry what other people think and I make my own decisions. Before I would consult with different people instead of consulting with myself, I would ignore myself, call this person, or this coach, just spin my wheels. Now I listen to myself more, know what I want. I really trust myself. Now I know I am enough, I can depend on myself and my spiritual connection to guide me,and really do what I feel authentically instead of doing things for this person or that person. It's profound!"
Michele Ester
BONUS Session #5: Dealing with Difficult People
In this BONUS session, I will teach you my secret strategies for dealing with difficult people. I have been told that this session alone is worth the entire price of the program. If you have people who drain your time, interrupt you constantly, don’t do what you ask them to do, bring their negativity into your space, etc. then you are probably wasting a lot of time having to deal with your reactions to them. In this BONUS session, we are going to eliminate this, possibly one of your biggest, time drains. You will learn my secret, 5-step conversation tool for getting difficult people to do what you want them to do - and you'll be shielded from any negativity they might bring.
"After taking your course, I saw an immediate difference in how I am approaching stressful situations and people at work. Its made things easier for me in my job and in my personal life. The degree of confidence I feel after the course is significant. I got the result right away, it was fantastic"
RG attorney
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Here Is a Partial List Of Important Information Revealed, Discussed and Demonstrated During This Revolutiona
- The real reason you put off the next steps you want most in your career and life - and why your own self discipline is powerless against it
- Why the approaches you’ve tried to help stop procrastination are destined to fail, and how you can lick your procrastination habit for good
- Exactly why you're keeping yourself stuck in a rut and not doing the things you know you should do
- Determine the surefire question to ask of difficult people that immediately changes their behavior and compels them to respect you
- Discover my never-fail, 100% effective technique that transforms your angry, frustrated mood into a peaceful, centered mood in 47 seconds or less – This tip is worth the price of the audio conference alone!
- I will reveal the one proven phrase that instantly earns the respect of your boss, your colleagues, your clients, and even your spouse
- You will learn the guaranteed way to fit your exercise regime into your schedule, at least 3 times each week - and how to never feel guilty again when you take time off for yourself
- You will discover how you can achieve your career goals faster by trying 50% less than you are trying now.
- Learn the “psychological triggers” you need to know to move past your perfectionism and start taking action
- Learn how to finally get other people’s approval (once and for all!) So you don’t have to spend time worrying about whether you have it or not!
- You will learn how to absolutely ensure that your most important tasks are completed with confidence each and every day
Warning: This package is NOT for you if you are looking for traditional time management techniques that will tell you how to schedule your time. Its also not for you if you are looking for a guru to ‘kick your a_ _” and remind you that you are being lazy and you need to get up off the couch and do something.
Now, I don’t know about you, but I’m pretty impatient and and I wouldn’t want to ‘wait’ to listen to 5 weeks of audio lessons in order to stop wasting time. If you have a concern about this, then listen to what prior participants have said about how much you learn each week:
When you listen to the 2nd week’s audio you will hear how a number of the participants used the skill in lesson #1 within 24 hours of learning it. You will hear the story of how one of the participants used the skill to free up 2-3 hours in one day that she would have otherwise wasted -- just from applying the skill she learned in lesson #1.
After learning the lesson in the 2nd week audio, one of the participants emailed me, saying:
"I now have a much more powerful relationship with myself. The inner critic has been replaced with an intimate, emotionally intelligent methodology that leaves me feeling more clear, present and in control each moment. I've shifted from being reactive to proactively going after what I really want in my work and life. Your exercises are brilliant and I'm well on my way to freeing up 5 hours every week."
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Oh, and one more thing: I appreciate that you might be a procrastinator and you might procrastinate on grabbing this program for yourself. So I wanted to take a moment to help you understand what your procrastination is costing you.
Do you know what your time-wasting habits are actually costing you?
Well, for starters, you have the costs you could never actually add up, such as losing respect for yourself and allowing opportunities to pass you by because you weren’t organized enough to put yourself out there for them.
And we all know that time is money, so let's put a pencil to your time-wasting habits:
Let's say you waste just one hour each day (although you and I both know it could be way more than that). Let’s just say your billing time is worth $100 an hour, look at what your procrastination is actually costing you:
$100 x 7 hours each week = $700.00 weekly
$700 x 52 weeks each year = $36,400 annually
Realistically, your time wasting and procrastination could be costing you that much every year! What would do with an extra $36,400 this year and the self respect that goes along with being focused?
That's more than a down payment on a home! Or a really exotic anywhere-you-want-to-go dream vacation every 3 months!
I bet you never looked at your procrastination that way before, have you?
Look, I'm not telling you any of this to get you depressed or down on yourself - actually, it's the exact opposite. I'm here to share with you some valuable information to provide you with hope that you can go from chaos to control and have more justified hope for your future. I'm here to show you how you can regain that $36,400 every single year, over and over again.
Think about it... if someone said "I will give you back $36,400 in exchange for $249" it would be a no-brainer, right?
So if you're ready to put an end, once and for all, to your time-wasting habits, unfocused days and energy drains, and start achieving the success you know you were destined for, then get your registration in right now!
I am confident in the efficacy of the approaches I use, thus this program comes with a money-back guarantee. If at the end of the entire audio program you can document that you consistently applied the skills you learned (correctly as they were taught) and you do not feel equipped to or have not made noticeable progress towards ending 5 hours of wasting time each week, I will give you a full refund for the program.
Sincerely,
Sharon Melnick, Ph.D.
P.S. I'm sure you've noticed these are serious economic times. It's for real now, that you MUST end wasting time so you can rely on yourself to put your best foot forward in front of the people who are in a position to hire you. Don’t continue to allow yourself to fall short of the productivity that will give you a sense of security – Start right now to allow yourself to finally have the success that you have always hoped for yourself!
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